Questions
(Q) and Answers (A)
(Q):
If one is not able to sit on the ground and has to sit on a
chair, what is the right sitting position then?
(A): To sit on a chair is all right, but not on a soft chair
like a sofa. Sit on a harder chair where you can sit up straight.
Only advanced meditators can sit in a sofa and still meditate.
They can even meditate while sleeping.
(Q): Is it better to do a cycle of breath of 21 times?
(A): It depends. As I've explained, the counting has to be done
with quality. It is safer if you start from a small count with
quality. You can then progress with quality to the higher counts.
Some people have difficulties counting with the mind during
meditation. In that case, it is fine to use a clock for three
minutes, or five minutes at a time. During the sitting, you can
look at a watch but it is better to put a clock in front of you.
However, don't try to hurry and finish the session.
You might have heard a lot about Shi'nay teachings. All of you
have attended courses everywhere. But have you achieved Shi'nay?
This is why it is very important to do Shi'nay properly. You
have to do more than going to the dharma talks and participating
in the events. You should do the practice very properly.
The information about
how to do Shi'nay should be given intact. Otherwise, the students
will not fully know or understand the
practice – how to do it, why it is the way it is, and then
to practise.
There is a proverb popular in the community of Vajrayana practitioners.
Mahasiddhas in India attained all the yidams by one yidam. But
the Vajrayana practitioners in Tibet didn't achieve one yidam
through the hundred yidam practices.
It means that the Tibetan practitioners were less successful
in meditation when compared to the Indian Buddhist practitioners.
This was what Atisha had discovered when he was in Tibet. He
had found the Tibetan mentality very much like that of a shopper.
They were always picking and choosing to find something very
high, or very big. They liked to hear about the energies and
miracles, and so on. They liked to listen to all these things,
but when they tried to actually do the practices, they were not
as successful as the Indian Mahasiddhas. These were some observations
that Atisha had made.
(Q): When I look at the watch while practising then I am also
distracted.
(A): Don't try to look again and again. You can put a bigger
clock in front of you and then just look at it once or twice.
That is not a problem. Don't look at it too often.
Summary of meditation posture and method
We
will do some meditation now.
The
posture: The right hand is in the left hand and
rests on your left leg. Raise the shoulders
a little, but not forward, a little more towards the back.
Keep the stomach in. Breathe into the stomach and press it
down. Keep
it below the navel, in the abdomen. The spine should be kept
straight up. The neck is bent down a little. The eyes look
to the ground along the nose. The mouth and the tongue are
kept
normal. The mouth is closed but without pressure. The advice
is not to close the eyes when doing Shi'nay. Keep the eyes
normal as usual. Blinking is not a problem.
Then concentrate on your breath. Breathe out gently, visualize
your breath as a slightly curved beam of light, and it almost
touches the ground. Then, it independently comes back in. You
inhale and it goes down almost touching your navel. In, out,
in, out. Concentrate and keep the awareness of whether the mind
is focused on the breathing and the beam of light, or not.
While you are meditating, don't be tense. But if you are too
relaxed then you will fall asleep. So by thinking, or by forcing
your mind to be brighter, you energize yourself.
Visualize your breath from the two nostrils, but as one beam
of light, slightly curved, and independent of you. It's tiny
but very clear. Inhale and exhale. Do not try to think that the
light is really there. It is just a vision. It is like training
a wild horse. In the beginning, it is very uncomfortable for
the horse to be controlled by people. It's the same for the mind.
At first, the mind doesn't want to agree with you. But later,
the mind will become naturally calm. Then, the mind will be very
comfortable.
Concentrate on one thing. Try not to think so much.
When you breathe out, the tip of the light beam nearly touches
the ground, and the other end of the beam is almost out just
underneath the nose. Since the beam is visualized, it does not
have to exactly follow through the whole body.
When you are used to it then you can expand it. You could do
it all the way to the tip of the toe and so on. You will do that
later. It will produce a good effect also. For now, visualize
the light beam from the navel to the nose and out, more in a
curve.
For beginners, those of you who have never done any meditation,
this is very uncomfortable. The mind won't stay focused. You
may feel that you can never do it well. But do it. Quickly you
will get used to it. You can do it.
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